A-ROD & REDEMPTION, JETER & DEVASTATION
Sunday, April 28th, 2019“Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.”
It’s an old saying, but it says a lot. After reading a piece about Alex Rodriguez in The New York Times Sunday magazine earlier this month, I decided I didn’t want to be fooled a second time.
Indeed, Rodriguez fooled me once. He fooled me big time. It was in spring training in 1997, and it was the first time I met or interviewed him. The previous year, his first full season in the majors, Rodriguez made a huge splash with a tidal wave of a season. Playing for the Seattle Mariners, the 21-year-old shortstop drove in 123 runs, hit 36 homers and batted .358 with a .414 on-base percentage and .631 slugging percentage. The Sporting News named him Major League Player of the Year.
“At the age of 21,” I wrote in the Times, “Rodriguez is also a phenomenal baseball player. He may be an even more phenomenal person. It is easy to walk away from a conversation with him wanting to take him home to be another child in the family.”
Yes, I wrote that uncharacteristically effusive assessment of Rodriguez. Worse, though, I called my wife after I left the Mariners’ clubhouse and told her I had just found another child for us.
I should feel embarrassed to disclose that thought, but I don’t. I realize I’m only one of many Rodriguez has fooled over the intervening years. Call him a charmer, call him a con man. Whatever you want to call him, he was successfully adept at luring a listener into his web of likeability.
Is Rodriguez still fooling us, or at least trying to? I’d have to say yes. Maybe he deserves more credit for his redemption, but there are reasons to withhold that credit.
This is the start of the piece in the Times Sunday magazine by David Marchese:
“Alex Rodriguez has, in retirement, fashioned a comeback that far exceeds any reversals he engineered on a baseball field. It wasn’t all that long ago that the former Yankee was one of professional sports’ biggest bad guys, and not without reason. He was suspended for the 2014 season for violating the league’s antidoping rules. Even aside from that, he was widely considered to be vain and disingenuous, especially in his hometown.”
A-Rod’s biggest redemptive step has been his employment by ESPN to serve as an in-game analyst. He is good at what he does, but there is mixed in-house feeling about his willingness to talk about his use of performance-enhancing drugs. Depending on the point of view, he has talked enough about his use or he has declined to accede to the wishes of his superiors to discuss it more.
We can go back four years when Rodriguez was still playing and returned from his season-long suspension. He issued a handwritten statement but avoided mention of steroids use.
“I take full responsibility for the mistakes that led to my suspension for the 2014 season. I regret that my actions made the situation worse than it needed to be. To Major League Baseball, the Yankees, the Steinbrenner family, the Players Association and you, the fans, I can only say I’m sorry.
“I accept the fact that many of you will not believe my apology or anything that I say at this point. I understand why and that’s on me. It was gracious of the Yankees to offer me the use of Yankee Stadium for this apology but I decided the next time I am in Yankee Stadium, I should be in pinstripes doing my job.”
Mistakes and actions but no acknowledgement of his use of steroids, his cheating and his lying. Maybe some ESPN officials would have liked him to admit that he cheated and lied, but those comments have not been forthcoming.
He has gone only so far as to say, “I made my bed and I have to lie in it.” At least he’s not blaming anyone else.
Rodriguez also has overlooked his outrageous behavior at the grievance hearing in 2014 in which he was challenging his suspension. When it came time for Rodriguez to testify, he threw a temper tantrum and stormed out of the hearing room. He concocted an excuse for his action, but the real reason was he didn’t want to have to testify under oath.
That was Rodriguez at his scheming but obvious best.
We still don’t know the truth of A-Rod’s use of PEDs. He has admitted using them but only when he was caught. Ten years ago Selena Roberts wrote a book filled with accusations that Rodriguez used PEDs as early as high school.
I was brutally critical of the book not because of Roberts’ allegations but because of her book-filled use of anonymous sources. It seemed that Roberts didn’t talk to an anonymous source whom she didn’t quote.
In the end, maybe Roberts was right about Rodriguez’s use of steroids, but to be fair to the accused and to the book’s readers the ton of accusations had to be supported by something other than anonymity.
Back on that day in spring training in 1997, when I was ready to adopt A-Rod, he talked about his 22-year-old friend Derek Jeter.
“I love Derek like a brother,” Rodriguez said. “We respect each other an awful lot.”
Jeter, who has never been associated with performance-enhacing drugs, has never had the need to be the public personality Rodriguez craves. Despite Rodriguez’s comments in 1997 there is nearly an entire field of study on his relationship with Jeter. I don’t know where their relationship stands now, if there is a relationship, but it did not flourish while they were still teammates in New York. Perhaps drugs had something to do with it.
While Rodriguez cleaned himself up and set out on the road to redemption, Jeter pursued his own path and became the chief executive officer and minority partner of the Miami Marlins.
Jeter’s group paid $1.1 billion for the Marlins, an astounding sum for a team so beaten and battered over the years. The Bruce Sherman group paid that price to Jeffrey Loria because legal sports betting was on the horizon and owners old and new anticipated a gold rush as their share of the legal sports handle.
However, no shares have been forthcoming because Major League Baseball, nor any of the other leagues, has negotiated a revenue-sharing agreement.
Meanwhile, the Marlins have traded away their best and costliest players and are struggling to stay afloat. Jeter, I have been told, is devastated over the developments. Perhaps Jeter could call his old friend A-Rod, and they could have a chat for old-time sake.